Goalie: these are for lower level leagues and doesn't actually drives me nuts... it just breaks my will to play:
1- Players circling around the zone trying to set up the "perfect shot". Like, they'll even be alone in the crease and wait a solid 3-5 seconds before making... A PASS which of course whiffs and doesnt even need to be stopped.
Listen, I'm obviously here to move, but also to stop pucks and have fun breaking your spirit because you can't score after 50 shots. Being in position, using my legs to go up-down and shuffling around the crease for 50 mins while getting 3 shots on nets is annoying.
2- No pressure on a shooter - playing with no urgency
In the same vein as 1)... I understand that we play for fun, but leaving one guy standing woth an open lane to shoot, taking his sweet time, then he decides he can't score so goes forward for a deke. Once again, super slow and just wait, wait wait. Someone get even partially in his way!!!
3- if you're a grown ass person, learn to shoot straight shots!!!
Sometimes a skate can be fun for a goalie even if the players suck (at skating), because they'll possess strong shots. But, if I cant feel the puck when it hits my pads... ugh.
I wish I could offer more nuanced takes, but I've recently been trying to find a place to play after moving, the points above are really killing my fun as a goalie. maybe im too critical though lol