Ipod help!?

When I first installed the software it gave me the option to have itunes stay up to day with any changes I make on my computer and scan for updates or deletions.. but I chose to do it all manually :cry: Lord what a pain.. I've been searching every option I can find to change it so it does it autmatically but I cann't find the option. Anybody know what I am talking about?

Screw itunes. Its a pain in the ass.

Try using Ephpod instead. I've been using it for a while now and its very simple and organized. Plus you can move music from the Ipod back on the PC using ephpod, which I believe you cant do using itunes.