Marner /McAvoy millions >>>Carlo/Heinen.
I don't think anyone is asking for sympathy. This is just the way the system works. Unless someone can come up with a better one, you just need to get used to it.
The annoying part is how out of hand it has gotten this past year or so. RFAs used to take respectable bridge deals and move on. Now it's a power struggle that hurts the league.